I used to think the scariest things in life came from outside—strangers, unknown threats, the dark. I never thought danger could move in with you wearing yoga pants and a polite smile.
When my sister-in-law, Abby, called me crying about her divorce, I didn’t hesitate. I told her to come stay with us. My husband, Mitch, was relieved. “It’s only temporary,” he said, even though I already knew that word meant different things to different people. I tried to be gracious. She’d been through a lot, and I didn’t want to make her feel like a burden.
At first, she was perfect. Too perfect. She cleaned the kitchen before I woke up, picked up the kids from school without being asked, laughed too hard at Mitch’s jokes. I told myself I was being paranoid. After all, she was family.
But then things started to feel…off. It began with the clothes. Abby started borrowing mine. First, she asked. Then she just helped herself. I found my favorite cardigan folded on her bed and my heels under her dresser. She claimed it was just easier than packing everything. I let it go.
A few weeks later, she dyed her hair the same warm chestnut brown as mine. I laughed and said we looked like twins. She didn’t laugh back. She just smiled.
It got worse. She started making the kids’ lunches and left cute notes—the kind I usually wrote. My youngest, Lily, came home one day holding Abby’s hand and said, “Mommy makes the best sandwiches!” I froze. “That’s not your mommy, honey,” I corrected gently. Lily blinked and said, “But she does the same stuff you do.”
Mitch laughed when I told him. “She’s just helping out,” he said. “Don’t be so sensitive.”
Maybe I would’ve believed him if I hadn’t caught Abby using my bathrobe after her shower. The same robe I wore every morning for years. She stood in front of the mirror, running her fingers through her damp hair, humming the same tune I always hummed. When she saw me, she didn’t flinch. She just said, “It’s so soft. No wonder you love it.”
That night, I couldn’t sleep. I got up to check on the kids, and as I walked past the hallway, I saw her door cracked open. She was watching me. Just standing there, half-shadowed, in my robe. I didn’t say anything. I just walked faster.
I began noticing her watching me at odd times—when I cooked, folded laundry, even when I was brushing my teeth. She’d ask questions like, “Why do you always squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom?” or “Is that how you fold towels? Interesting.”
Then came the journals. I kept a small stack of them in the back of my nightstand. Nothing scandalous—just my thoughts, memories, and random notes. I found them one afternoon, half out of their hiding spot. Pages dog-eared. Abby was in the kitchen, sipping tea and scrolling through her phone like nothing had happened. When I asked her about it, she smiled and said, “I just wanted to understand you better. You’re fascinating.”
That’s when I decided to check her room.
I waited until she went to the grocery store. My hands were shaking as I opened her closet. At first, nothing. Then, tucked behind a stack of sweaters, I found a shoebox. Inside were photos. Dozens of them. All of me. Some from behind, taken in the kitchen or yard. Others while I was sleeping. One of me hugging Mitch. One of me brushing Lily’s hair.
Under the photos was a sealed letter. It had Mitch’s name written in Abby’s tight cursive. I shouldn’t have opened it, but I did.
The letter started with: “Mitch, I know you feel it too. The connection between us. I see how you look at me now that you’re free of her emotionally. You and I belong together. I know I can be the wife you deserve. The mother your children need.”
My stomach turned. I sat on the bed, the box still in my lap, trying to breathe. Abby wanted my life. She didn’t just want comfort or support. She wanted my identity.
That night, I said nothing. I needed a plan.
The next morning, I told Mitch we needed to talk. I laid it all out—the copying, the photos, the journal snooping, the letter. He looked at me like I was describing a horror movie.
He asked to see the letter. He read it three times. “She’s not well,” he finally whispered. “I thought she was just…grateful. I didn’t know she was obsessed.”
We agreed on a strategy. He would talk to her. We wouldn’t confront her aggressively. Just ask her to leave, gently. Say we needed space as a family. No mention of the letter. That could trigger her.
Abby didn’t take it well. She sobbed, begged, accused me of turning Mitch against her. “I gave everything to help this family!” she screamed. “I was better for them than you ever were!”
But Mitch stood firm. “You need help, Abby,” he said. “You crossed boundaries. It’s time you moved on.”
She packed that night.
It’s been six months. We haven’t heard from her since. Mitch and I are in therapy, rebuilding trust. I still check the locks at night. I still sometimes wake up thinking I see her shadow in the hallway.
But I’m reclaiming my space, one step at a time. I started writing again. I laugh more. I wear my robe without feeling watched.
I don’t know what Abby told herself in the mirror, wearing my clothes and reading my words. I don’t know what she truly believed would happen.
All I know is, I got my life back. And no one gets to steal it again.
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