I’ve always prided myself on knowing my husband. After all, we’ve been together since I was nineteen, married for six years, with two beautiful children and another on the way. Our love story wasn’t perfect, but it was ours—a steady, comforting rhythm of shared routines and inside jokes, of late-night talks and whispered dreams.
So when I picked up his phone that morning and saw the message on his lock screen, my world stopped.
“You haven’t told her about us?”
The words hit me like a freight train. And above them, the name of my best friend—Emma.
My stomach twisted, not from pregnancy nausea but from the sheer force of betrayal. My fingers trembled as I unlocked his phone, my heart pounding so loudly I thought it would wake the kids.
The chat thread was right there. I hesitated, taking one last deep breath before tapping it open.
Emma: You haven’t told her about us?
Him: I will. Just not yet. She’s already stressed with the pregnancy.
Emma: It’s been months. I don’t want to keep hiding this.
Him: I know. I just need time.
The air was sucked out of my lungs. Months.
This wasn’t some passing mistake—it was ongoing. A deliberate, hidden betrayal between the two people I trusted the most. My mind screamed at me to wake him up, to throw the phone at him, to demand answers, but a cry from my three-year-old pulled me back. I couldn’t break down. Not yet.
I spent the morning in a daze, moving through the motions of breakfast, diaper changes, and soothing my toddler while my mind raced through every moment of the past few months.
Emma had been around constantly—bringing me snacks when cravings hit, taking the kids for playdates so I could rest, comforting me when I doubted my ability to juggle three children.
Had it all been a lie?
And my husband—how could he sleep beside me every night, kiss my forehead, and tell me he loved me while carrying this secret?
By noon, I had made up my mind. I wasn’t going to scream. I wasn’t going to let emotions dictate my next move. I wanted answers. And I wanted to hear them from both of them.
That afternoon, after dropping the kids at my mother’s, I called Emma.
“Hey, you okay?” she asked, her voice laced with concern, as if she wasn’t the very reason my heart was breaking.
“Come over,” I said, keeping my tone even. “I need to talk to you.”
There was a pause. “Uh, sure. Everything alright?”
I didn’t answer.
Fifteen minutes later, she walked into my living room, and for the first time, I saw her differently. Not as the friend I’d trusted with my secrets, but as the woman who had been hiding something from me. She sat down on the couch, her hands fidgeting.
“What’s going on?” she asked carefully.
I didn’t waste time. “I saw the text, Emma.”
Her face drained of color. “What… what text?”
“Don’t do that.” My voice was steel. “The one you sent my husband this morning. The one about him not telling me about you two.”
Her mouth opened, then closed. And then, in the strangest way, her face shifted.
“It’s not what you think!” she blurted out.
I folded my arms, waiting.
She hesitated for a second, then exhaled, running a hand through her hair. “Your husband and I… we started a side business together.”
A beat of silence.
“What?”
She swallowed. “He didn’t want to tell you because he was afraid of stressing you out. He lost his job a few months ago.”
The world tilted beneath me.
Just then, the front door opened, and my husband stepped in. His eyes landed on Emma first, then on me, and I saw it—the realization, the panic. He knew.
“You told her?” he asked Emma, his voice tight.
“She saw the text,” Emma replied, avoiding my gaze.
He turned to me. “Babe, listen, I’m sorry I didn’t tell you. I planned to. I just… I wanted to have something solid first. I know how much you’ve been dealing with the pregnancy, and I didn’t want to add more to your plate.”
I stared at him, my heart a mess of emotions. “You lost your job?” My voice was barely a whisper.
He nodded. “A few months ago. I didn’t want to disappoint you.”
A tear slid down my cheek. “So instead, you let me believe—” My voice broke, and I inhaled sharply, shaking my head. “What business?”
He looked at Emma, who reached into her bag and pulled out a folder. She handed it to me, and as I opened it, I was met with drawings—beautiful, detailed designs of board games, each one personalized for families.
“Your husband is incredible at this,” Emma said softly. “He came up with the idea while playing with the kids. He wanted to create something special for families—something that makes them connect the way we all used to when we were younger.”
I traced a finger over the sketches, my vision blurring.
“We’ve already started production,” my husband added. “Emma invested, and we found a small manufacturer. We were going to tell you once we had real results, once I knew I could provide for you and the kids.” He reached for my hand. “I never meant to hurt you.”
I let out a shaky breath. The betrayal I thought I had felt was shifting into something else—hurt, yes, but also understanding. He should have told me. But I also understood his fear.
I met Emma’s eyes. “And the message? You made it sound like—”
“I was pushing him to tell you,” she said quickly. “Because I hated lying to you.”
Another deep breath. I wasn’t fully ready to forgive. Not yet. But I was ready to listen.
That night, after the kids were asleep, my husband sat beside me, his hand tentatively finding mine.
“I’m sorry,” he said again. “I should have trusted you.”
I nodded, my heart still raw, but lighter. “Yes, you should have.”
He squeezed my hand. “Will you come to the workshop with me tomorrow? I want you to be part of this.”
A small smile ghosted my lips. “I’d like that.”
The road ahead wouldn’t be easy, but for the first time in weeks, I felt like we were walking it together.
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