Me Green Me

I ran into an old friend, and we spent some time catching up. It was a pleasant talk, or at least that was what I thought. A couple of weeks later, I got an invitation for court. Turns out my so-called friend had gone behind my back and filed a lawsuit against me.

His name was Radu. We went to university together, studied business, and even shared a tiny flat for a semester. We lost touch after graduation, like most people do. So when I saw him at the train station café, sipping an espresso and looking just like I remembered, I was genuinely happy.

We talked for over an hour. He said he was now working on a small import-export company, trying to expand into local grocery chains. I told him I’d been running my own logistics consultancy, mostly for small businesses.

Somewhere in that conversation, I mentioned a former client who owed me money and how I was still chasing invoices. I didn’t go into details. Just a passing comment, something people say when catching up. He asked some questions, I answered casually. I didn’t think much of it.

Two weeks later, that court invitation arrived. I thought it was a mistake.

Turns out, Radu had taken my passing mention and twisted it into a “business partnership” claim. He accused me of fraud. Said I had taken an idea we supposedly came up with together back in university and used it without giving him credit—or profit.

My hands shook holding that paper. I didn’t even remember discussing this exact idea. I had done all the work, built my consultancy from scratch, and here was someone I hadn’t seen in years accusing me of theft.

I called him, thinking maybe it was a misunderstanding. He didn’t answer.

Then I messaged him—nothing. Just the cold silence of someone who already made their move.

The first court date came. I sat there in a cheap suit, stomach twisted, while he walked in with a lawyer and a smug smile. He had a stack of printed emails from over ten years ago—ideas we once threw around in our late-night dorm talks.

Half of it was vague. But in the hands of a decent lawyer, even vague ideas can look convincing.

My own lawyer, Matei, was good, but he warned me. “This might get messy,” he said. “Even if we win, it’ll cost you time and money. But we’ll fight it.”

And so we did.

The next six months were hell. I couldn’t focus on work. Clients noticed I was distracted. Some left. Others delayed payments. My savings started to shrink.

I didn’t want to tell my parents—I didn’t want them to worry. I kept saying I was “going through some stuff” whenever friends asked.

There was one person I leaned on—Diana, my neighbor. We weren’t close at first, just the usual small talk in the elevator. But one evening, after I got back from a particularly bad court session, she saw me slumped on the stairs.

“Rough day?” she asked gently.

That question broke me. I ended up telling her everything. Not in detail at first, but enough for her to understand.

From that day, she started checking in on me. She’d bring me food when I forgot to eat. Reminded me to take breaks. Slowly, her kindness became my anchor.

Meanwhile, the case dragged on. Radu’s lawyer kept pushing the narrative that I had stolen intellectual property. They used vague dorm conversations as their base and tried to paint a picture of betrayal.

It felt surreal. Like I was being punished for a crime I hadn’t committed.

One day, Matei pulled me aside.

“Look,” he said, “we have something. Radu filed taxes in those years with no mention of this so-called business. But he filed something else—a startup with another guy, in the exact same period he claims you were in business together.”

That was the first good news in months.

Matei dug deeper. We found evidence that Radu had tried to pitch a similar idea to another investor four years ago—and got rejected. He had repackaged the same pitch using my success as his “proof of concept.”

We brought this to court.

Radu didn’t see it coming.

His lawyer tried to pivot, saying those were separate things, but the judge didn’t buy it.

In the final hearing, Radu’s credibility fell apart. The judge ruled in my favor. The accusations were dismissed, and I was cleared.

I should’ve felt victorious. But I didn’t. I just felt tired.

After the verdict, Radu approached me outside the courtroom.

He looked different. Less smug. More… defeated.

“I thought you wouldn’t fight back,” he said, avoiding my eyes. “I was broke. I needed something. Anything.”

I stared at him. So many things I wanted to say, but all I managed was, “You should’ve just asked.”

He nodded slowly. “I knew you’d say no.”

He walked away.

That was the last time I saw him.

I went back to my life, but it wasn’t the same.

I had lost money. A few clients. A year of peace. But somehow, I gained something too.

Diana and I became close. We started going on walks, then dinners. She was patient with me, always calm, always listening.

One evening, I asked her, “Why did you help me? You didn’t even know me.”

She smiled. “I’ve been through betrayal too. And I know what it’s like to feel alone.”

She never told me the full story, but I didn’t push. Her presence was enough.

Months passed. Business picked up again. A client I thought I’d lost returned, saying they respected how I handled myself under pressure.

Another client referred me to three more. Slowly, things started to heal.

Then, one afternoon, I got a letter. From Radu.

It was handwritten.

He apologized. Said he moved back to his hometown. Was working in his father’s workshop. Said losing the case made him rethink everything.

“I’m not asking for forgiveness,” he wrote. “Just wanted you to know I’m trying to fix myself.”

I didn’t reply. But I kept the letter.

Diana and I moved in together after a year. We didn’t rush anything. It just happened naturally.

One evening, over tea, she said something that stuck with me.

“You can’t control what people do to you. But you can control what you do after.”

That line became my compass.

I started mentoring young entrepreneurs. Taught them not just about business, but about ethics, patience, and trust. I told them my story—not to scare them, but to show them how to stand up without becoming bitter.

One of them, a 19-year-old girl from Brașov, messaged me a year later. She said she used my advice when her co-founder tried to edge her out of their startup. She stood firm and kept her dignity.

That meant more than any invoice I ever cashed.

Looking back, I realized the real wound wasn’t the lawsuit. It was the betrayal.

But the healing didn’t come from winning in court. It came from the people who stood by me. From kindness offered without reason. From choosing not to be like the one who hurt me.

Sometimes, the hardest lesson is learning that not everyone who smiles at you means well. And that’s okay.

Because the right people—when they show up—make up for the wrong ones.

If I had to sum up the whole journey, I’d say this: Guard your ideas, yes. But don’t let pain make you hard. Don’t let betrayal make you bitter.

Be cautious, but stay kind.

And if you’re ever in a dark place, remember: the people who matter will find you there—not to judge, but to sit with you until the light returns.

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