My Son’s Fiancee Lined Up $410,000 Against the House I Sewed to Keep

William Turner

My son’s fiancee took my bed apart to make room for her parents, then stood over me at their engagement party and said, “Cassie, get that rag off her. I won’t have my guests thinking we picked her up off a bench.” She already had a $410,000 loan lined up against the house. She never asked whose name was on it.

The quilt was my mother’s.

Blue and white, a double wedding ring, pieced in 1961 on a treadle machine in a kitchen in Moline.

Cassie had tucked it around me during the soup because my fingertips had gone white.

Cassie Tapia came Monday, Wednesday and Friday to sort my pills and make sure I ate something besides crackers.

She was not supposed to be working that night. Robyn had asked her to pour wine.

“Off,” Robyn said. “Now, please.”

Twenty-six people sat at my dining table. MY table. The leaf my husband put in every Thanksgiving for forty-one years.

Esperanza Kluge looked down at her napkin. A man from Lyndon’s office got very interested in the bread.

The caterer’s van out front had a dent shaped like Ohio.

“She’s cold, Ms. Kluge,” Cassie said.

“It’s seventy-one degrees. I set it myself.” Robyn smiled at the room. “Nadine likes an audience. Don’t you, Nadine?”

I said I was sorry.

I don’t know why. It came out of me like a cough.

Here is what nobody at that table knew.

For nine nights I had slept on a folding cot in the little room off the garage, next to the water heater.

Robyn had told me Lyndon wanted the big bedroom for her parents when they flew in to see the vows in June.

And after June too.

“Easier for everyone,” she said. She said Lyndon was too embarrassed to tell me himself.

So I didn’t ask him. You don’t make your only son say a thing like that out loud.

Cassie found out Wednesday. She came in with my pill organizer and found my headboard leaning in the hallway in three pieces, the screws in a sandwich bag taped to the back.

Robyn bent down close to Cassie’s ear.

“You work for an agency,” she said. “I have the number. I can have somebody else in this house by Monday.”

Cassie’s hand stayed flat on my shoulder.

She had a little boy at home and a car payment she told me about every week, like the weather.

“Don’t,” I said to her. “It’s just a quilt, honey. Take it.”

She didn’t take it.

She tucked the corner in tighter.

Robyn’s mouth went flat.

Down at Lyndon’s end, a chair scraped.

“Why is Cassie getting fired?”

Lyndon. Forty-six, and he still says Mom like a question when he’s worried.

He’d been talking bourbon with Robyn’s father for an hour. Mark Kluge, retired, sells boats now, or says he does.

Robyn put her hand on Lyndon’s arm. “Babe, your mom is having a rough night. Cassie keeps babying her.”

Lyndon walked the long way down to me anyway.

He crouched by my chair, took hold of my fingers, and let go like I was a cold pan.

“Mom. You’re freezing.”

“The room by the garage doesn’t hold heat,” I said.

“What room by the garage?”

“The one with the cot, sweetheart.”

Nobody ate.

Lyndon looked at me. Then at Robyn. Then at me again.

“Where’s your bed?”

“In the hall. In pieces.” I made my face pleasant. “It’s fine. Her folks want the big bedroom.”

“Want it for WHAT?”

Robyn laughed, one short note. “Lyndon. We talked about redoing the upstairs.”

“We talked about carpet.”

“Carpet is part of it, babe. It’s all one renovation.”

“It is NOT one renovation,” he said.

Then Mark Kluge cleared his throat and made it worse.

“Son, the place in Belleville is very nice. Robyn toured it twice. They’ve got a pool.”

Lyndon stood up slowly.

“What place?”

Nobody answered him. Esperanza started folding her napkin into smaller and smaller squares.

Cassie’s fingers dug into my shoulder.

“Tell him about the clipboard man,” she said to me. “Please, Nadine. Tell him.”

I hadn’t told anyone that part.

Thursday afternoon a man in a gray fleece walked through every room with Robyn and measured the walls with a laser thing that beeped. He photographed the kitchen. He asked her if the roof was original.

Her. Not me.

“An appraiser came Thursday,” I said.

Lyndon turned. “An appraiser.”

“For the refinance. Dad’s dealership needs a bridge. We went over this.”

“We did not.”

“It’s $410,000, Lyndon. That’s nothing against a place like this. And it’s yours, Lyndon. Your dad left it to you.” She pointed her glass at me. “She’s a guest. She’s been a guest since the funeral. SOMEBODY HAD TO SAY IT.”

Lyndon’s face went the color of the tablecloth.

“Mom?”

Every head turned to me. Twenty-six people and a caterer holding a tray of lamb.

I’m seventy-four. I had never ONCE raised my voice at that table.

I didn’t raise it then either.

“Cassie,” I said. “The brown envelope. Under the cot, in the shoebox with the Christmas cards.”

She went.

It took her maybe ninety seconds. Nobody spoke. Mark Kluge finished his whole glass.

Robyn said, “This is so unnecessary.”

Cassie came back and set the envelope in my lap. My hands were still cold. It took me two tries to work the clasp.

Jim did this in 1988, the spring Lyndon fell off the garage roof and broke his arm. He drove to the county building on his lunch hour and handed it to me over the dishes.

“In case I’m ever an idiot,” he said.

He never was. But he was right about somebody.

I unfolded the deed and laid it on the tablecloth beside Robyn’s champagne glass, face up, and turned it so she could read the top line.

She read it.

Then she looked at Lyndon.

“Babe,” she said. “You told me your dad left you everything.”

Lyndon stared at the paper.

“He did tell me that,” he said. “Mom. He told me that.”

“Your father told you a lot of things, sweetheart,” I said. “Sit down. There’s a second page.”

The yellow sheet

The second page was a sheet of yellow legal paper, folded in thirds behind the deed.

Jim’s handwriting. Blue ballpoint, pressed hard, the way he wrote checks.

I slid it across to Lyndon because it had his name at the top.

He didn’t sit down. He read it standing, and then he read it out loud, which I hadn’t asked him to do.

“April 11, 1988. Lyndon. If your mom’s got this out, somebody wants to borrow on the house. I told you it’s yours. I’ll keep telling you, because you’re eight and the bank man scared you. It’s your mother’s. I put it in her name so nobody can ever sign it away again. Not me. Not you. Dad.”

He turned the sheet over. The back was blank.

The caterer set the lamb down on the sideboard very carefully, like it might go off.

“Again,” Robyn said. “What does again mean?”

Nobody answered that either.

Mark Kluge reached for the bourbon and found the bottle empty. He put it back down on the ring it had left.

“It’s a note,” Robyn said. “It’s a note from a dead man to a little boy. It’s sweet. It’s not a legal document.”

“The deed is,” Cassie said.

Robyn kept her eyes off her. She looked at the room.

She did the smile again, the one for the guests. She picked up her phone off the table and held it up, and there was a flash, and I blinked.

“For the album,” she said. “Our engagement. Everybody’s here.”

Then she clapped once. “Okay. Dessert’s in the kitchen, there’s a cake from Salinas Bakery, please, everybody, go.”

People went. Twenty-six people can leave a room fast when they want to.

Esperanza stayed in her chair with her little stack of napkin squares.

Lyndon stood where he was with the yellow sheet.

Robyn came around to my chair and bent down to me the way she had bent down to Cassie. She smelled like the champagne and the lamb.

“It’s fine,” she said, very quiet. “We’ll sort it out. You’ll sign whatever Lyndon needs.”

I said nothing.

“You will,” she said. “You sign everything I put in front of you, Nadine.”

November 1987

The bank man in 1987 also had a clipboard.

He came on a Tuesday in November, in a brown coat, and he walked through every room of this house writing things down. He opened the closets. He asked Jim if the furnace was new.

Jim had co-signed a loan for a friend from the plant. A tavern on the east side, with a pool table and a grill. Jim put the house up as security because the man had stood up at our wedding.

The tavern lasted fourteen months.

Then the bank came for the house, because the house was the only thing anybody had that was worth coming for.

Lyndon was seven. He got under the table when the clipboard man came in, under the leaf, and he would not come out.

I watched from the kitchen doorway. Jim got down on his knees on the rug and crawled under there with him.

I could hear him.

“This is your house, bud. Nobody’s taking your house. It’s yours.”

That’s what Jim told Lyndon. That’s the whole of it.

It wasn’t true then either. That spring it belonged to the bank more than it belonged to us.

My mother had died the year before and left me her treadle machine, the one the quilt was pieced on. I set it up on the leaf, down at the far end, and I put a card in the window of the dry cleaner’s.

Hems. Zippers. Taking in. Letting out.

I sewed every night for most of a year.

I did prom dresses in March and a whole bridal party in May, six bridesmaids in a peach color I have never been able to look at since.

We ate a lot of soup. We ate crackers.

Jim sold his truck and rode the bus to the plant. Every Friday he took my envelope of cash to the bank and came home with a receipt, and the receipt went in a shoebox with our Christmas cards.

“If they come once, they come with paper,” he said. “Keep the paper.”

The quilt was on our bed that whole year. I’d come up at midnight with pins still in my sleeve and pull it up over both of us.

By the next March the note was down to where Jim’s paycheck could carry it.

In April Lyndon went up the ladder after a Frisbee and came off the garage roof.

Jim sat with him in the emergency room until three in the morning. The next day, on his lunch hour, he drove to the county building and put the house in my name alone.

He didn’t ask me. He just handed it to me over the dishes that night with the yellow sheet folded behind it.

“In case I’m ever an idiot,” he said.

Lyndon never saw the paper. He was eight, and his arm was in a cast, and his father told him the house was his every year after that until he stopped needing to hear it.

Jim died two winters ago, in February, in his recliner, with the Bears game on.

At the funeral lunch Lyndon squeezed my fingers and said, “Dad always said this house would be mine, Mom. I’m going to take care of it.”

I didn’t correct him. What do you say to that at a funeral lunch?

Fourteen months ago he gave up his apartment and moved back home with Robyn, to help.

And Robyn did help, at first. I’ll say that.

She labeled the pantry. She made me a chart for my pills on the refrigerator. She found the agency herself and set the whole thing up on her own phone, and that’s how Cassie came to us.

For eight months she called me Mama Nadine.

She took pictures of everything. The pantry labels. My pill chart. The leaf in the table. A slideshow, she said, for June.

Back at the party, Lyndon folded his father’s letter in half.

He put it in his shirt pocket, and he buttoned the pocket.

The room off the garage

Lyndon slept on the couch that night. I know because I heard the TV through the wall until two.

Robyn slept upstairs in their room. The big bedroom stayed empty, with the new bedding still in its plastic on the mattress.

I slept on the cot. Nobody told me not to.

Sunday morning a cab pulled up out front at a quarter to nine, and it was Esperanza Kluge, by herself, holding two coffees in a cardboard tray.

She and Mark were at a hotel by the interstate. Robyn had told me her parents needed the big bedroom, and her parents were at a hotel.

“Mark’s sleeping,” Esperanza said on my step. “I wanted to bring you a coffee.”

She’s sixty-six and wears her reading glasses on a beaded chain.

I could have taken her into the living room. That’s what I’d have done a week before.

“Come see where I sleep,” I said.

I took her through the kitchen and the laundry and down the two steps into the room off the garage.

The cot. The water heater ticking. My blue robe on a nail. My pill organizer on an upside-down paint bucket, because there wasn’t a table.

My mother’s quilt was folded at the foot of the cot. Cassie had carried it back down for me after the party.

Esperanza stood on the bottom step and didn’t come any farther.

“Nine nights,” I said.

She put the coffee tray on the dryer.

“Robyn told us you asked for this room,” she said. “For your knees. She said you didn’t want the stairs anymore.”

“I go up and down those stairs four times a day.”

“I know. I saw you last night.” She took her glasses off the chain and put them back on. “Mark hasn’t sold a boat since…”

She stopped. She looked at the water heater like it had said something.

“Since when?” I said.

“I should get back before he wakes up.” She picked up her own coffee and left mine on the dryer.

At the front door she turned around.

“There’s a brochure on your refrigerator,” she said. “With a pool on it. I’d take that down, if I were you.”

When she was gone I went and looked. It was under the magnet from Lyndon’s dentist. Belleville, a pool, two white-haired women laughing at a puzzle.

On the counter by the coffee maker was Cassie’s green binder from the agency. She writes in it every visit. My blood pressure, what I ate, what we did.

I opened it to Friday.

Client alert and oriented. Did the Jumble in pen. Ate half a turkey sandwich. Client sleeping in unheated room off garage per family. Client cold to touch. Reported to family, told it’s temporary.

Reported to family. She’d told Robyn on Friday.

I put the binder in the shoebox with the deed.

Upstairs, Robyn’s door opened. She came down in her robe with her phone, and she stopped at the bottom of the stairs when she saw me in the kitchen.

“Who was here?” she said.

“Your mother.”

Robyn looked at the empty cab space at the curb for a long time.

“What did she say to you?”

The agency’s number

Monday at eight a woman I had never seen rang the bell with a green binder of her own.

She was fifty or so, nice enough, in purple scrubs. She said she was from the agency and she’d be covering my visits now.

“Where’s Cassie?” I said.

“I just go where they send me, hon.”

So I did what I’d have done for anybody. I called the agency myself, from the kitchen phone, with my glasses on so I could read the number off the magnet.

I thought I’d fix it. I thought I’d say Cassie’s my aide, I’m the client, I’d like her back, and that would be the end of it.

A young man answered. He put me on hold twice.

When he came back he said, “Mrs. Wendt, I see the change request here from your representative.”

“My what?”

“Robyn Kluge. She’s listed as your agent under a power of attorney. We have it on file, she faxed it over in October.” Keys clicking. “She asked for a different caregiver as of today. She said there’d been a boundary issue.”

“Cassie tucked a quilt around me.”

“I’m sorry, ma’am. When there’s a POA, we take instructions from the agent.”

“I’m right here,” I said. “I’m the one you’re talking to.”

“I understand. I’d have to have the agent call in.”

He was polite about it. I’ll give him that. He was polite the whole time he was telling me I didn’t count.

I hung up and went down to the room off the garage and got down on my knees on the concrete, which I don’t do anymore, and pulled the shoebox out from under the cot.

Under the Christmas cards and the brown envelope was a packet of yellow paper.

Carbon copies. The kind with the pink and yellow layers.

I remembered it then. The Sunday before the bed came apart, Robyn had sat on the edge of my real bed with a clipboard of her own and a pen from the credit union.

“It’s just to hold a spot at Belleville,” she’d said. “For after June. In case your knees get worse. They fill up, Mama Nadine. I don’t want you on a waiting list.”

She’d flipped the pages for me with her nail where the yellow tabs said SIGN HERE. I signed six times. I didn’t put my glasses on.

“That’s your copy,” she said. “For your records.”

I’d put it in the shoebox without reading it, because that’s where paper goes in this house.

I read it now, on my knees on the garage floor.

The first three pages were Belleville. A deposit. A room preference. Emergency contacts, with Robyn’s cell phone first and Lyndon’s second.

Page four had a different typeface.

DURABLE GENERAL POWER OF ATTORNEY. And under it, in the list of powers, with a little box checked: real property transactions.

Lyndon’s commitment letter

Lyndon came home at six and didn’t take off his coat.

He came straight through the laundry and down the two steps, and he stood about where Esperanza had stood.

He’d been at the bank’s office downtown at lunch. He’d asked to see his file.

“I signed the application,” he said. “Two weeks ago. At my desk.”

He held out a printed letter. It had a bank’s logo at the top, and under that, Conditional Commitment.

“Robyn brought it in at lunch with the caterer’s contract. She said it was a pre-approval, for after June, for if we ever wanted to redo the upstairs. I thought it was ours, Mom. I thought it was my house. Dad told me.”

“I know he did.”

“It says I’m the owner. It says owner-occupied, one household. It says I’m the one who lives here.” He turned it over the way he’d turned the yellow sheet over. “It’s got my signature on it.”

I read it with my glasses on. Cash-out refinance. $410,000. Closing Friday at ten. Disbursement to a bank in Florida, payoff, Kluge Marine.

“Kluge Marine,” I said.

“Mark’s boat lot.”

“Mark is borrowing $410,000 against my house to pay his boat lot’s bank.”

“Robyn says it’s a bridge. She says he’ll have it back in two years. She says the lot just needs to get through the winter.” He rubbed his face. “She cried, Mom. She sat in the car outside my office and cried.”

I gave him the yellow carbons.

He read page four standing up. He’s never been able to read anything bad sitting down. His father was the same.

“She said this was for Belleville,” I said. “To hold a spot.”

“Mom. Why would you sign this?”

“Because she said you were too embarrassed to tell me yourself.”

He sat down on the end of the cot then. It sagged almost to the floor.

“Okay,” he said. “Okay. What if you just sign the loan? Then nobody needs the… then it’s just a loan. Then it’s over. Mark pays it, the lot gets through the winter, we get married in June, and nobody has to use that thing.”

He meant it kindly. He looked like he was eight.

“You want me to sign my house over to Mark Kluge’s bank.”

“I want this to stop.”

“So do I,” I said. “Put my bed back together, Lyndon.”

He looked at the stairs up to the kitchen. He looked at the cot.

Then he went up without the headboard.

Belleville

Tuesday morning I took the brochure down off the refrigerator and dialed the number on the back.

A woman named Traci answered in admissions. She had the kind of voice that’s had a lot of practice with daughters.

“This is Nadine Wendt,” I said. “I believe you’re holding a bed for me.”

“Oh, Mrs. Wendt. Yes. Let me pull you up.”

I could hear her typing.

“Here you are. Private room, garden side. Move-in is the fifteenth. Your daughter-in-law has done just a wonderful job with the file.”

“She’s not my daughter-in-law yet.”

“Oh. Well. Robyn Kluge, your agent.” More typing. “Looks like your first month is coming out of your own checking account, under the power of attorney, and the deposit already cleared. Your husband’s pension will cover most of the monthly after that.”

I put my hand on the counter.

Jim’s pension. Thirty-one years on the line at the plant.

“Can you tell me what’s in my file?” I said. “I’d like to know what you know about me.”

“Of course. It’s your file.” A pause. “We do ask families to send us notes, so our nurses know what to expect on day one. Robyn’s been very thorough. Do you want me to read them?”

“Please.”

Traci read them to me.

Client has relocated herself to an unheated room adjacent to the garage. Declines her own bed. Family has offered the main bedroom repeatedly.

Client appears disoriented at mealtimes. Frequently cold.

Client is eating very little. Primarily crackers.

At Saturday’s family event, in front of guests, client wrapped herself in a blanket and repeatedly apologized without cause. Photo attached.

“There’s a photo,” Traci said. “Would you like me to describe it?”

“No,” I said.

I knew the photo. Robyn’s flash at the table, after Lyndon read the yellow sheet. The quilt around my shoulders and my face blinking.

For the album.

“It’s all very typical,” Traci said, kindly. “A lot of our families see it start with the eating, and with the sleeping. It’s hard. You’re not in trouble, Mrs. Wendt. Nobody thinks you did anything wrong.”

I looked down the two steps into the room off the garage. The cot. The paint bucket. The water heater ticking.

Robyn hadn’t taken my bed for her parents. Her parents were at a hotel by the interstate.

She had taken my bed so she could write down that I’d left it.

“Mrs. Wendt? Are you still there?”

“I’m here.”

“It says here you chose the garage room. Is that not right?”

The green binder

At ten-thirty Tuesday Cassie pulled up in her own car. She wasn’t on the schedule. She wasn’t on anybody’s schedule anymore.

“I’m not here,” she said at the door. “I’m just driving you.”

She drove me to the credit union, where Jim used to take the cash envelope. A young man named Khalid at the desk did notaries. I signed a revocation of the power of attorney in front of him with my glasses on, every page.

Then Cassie drove me to the county building, the same one, and the woman at the window stamped a copy and recorded it with the deed.

Then we went to the agency office and the bank’s office downtown and the post office, and I left a stamped copy at each.

It cost forty dollars and the whole afternoon. Cassie’s boy was at her sister’s.

Wednesday at four Robyn came home with a folder from the bank and her parents behind her.

Lyndon was already sitting at the table. He’d come home at lunch and not gone back.

Cassie was at the counter with the green binder, because it was Wednesday.

“Okay,” Robyn said, and set the folder down where the deed had been. “Okay. I know everybody’s upset. I’m upset. Saturday was a lot.”

She took her coat off. She didn’t sit.

“So here’s where we are. The bank’s fine with the agent signing for the owner. I called them. That’s what a power of attorney is for. Nadine signed it, it’s notarized, it’s done. I sign Friday as her agent, Lyndon signs as the borrower, Daddy’s lot gets through the winter, and nobody loses anything.”

Mark nodded. He had on a sport coat and no tie.

“And Belleville is the fifteenth,” Robyn said. “And I’m sorry, but that’s not about the house. That was always going to happen. Look at her. She sleeps by a water heater. She says sorry to chairs. She doesn’t eat. Twenty-six people saw her Saturday night. I have pictures.”

She held up the phone. She didn’t turn it around.

“I’m not the bad guy here. I moved into this house to take care of her. I found the agency. I made the chart. Do you know what it’s like? Fourteen months of crackers and the Bears and that quilt? Somebody had to make a plan.”

Nobody said anything, so she kept going.

“And honestly, Cassie, you shouldn’t be here. You’re not her aide anymore. This is a family thing.”

“It’s Wednesday,” Cassie said.

I opened the shoebox on my lap and took out the revocation and put it on top of her folder.

The county stamp was on it, purple, with Tuesday’s date.

Robyn read it.

“This doesn’t…” She stopped. “You can’t do this. You’re not competent to do this. That’s the whole point of the power of attorney.”

Cassie slid the green binder down the table.

Robyn didn’t open it. Lyndon did.

He read it out loud, the way he’d read his father’s letter. A year of Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Alert and oriented. Did the Jumble in pen. Argued about the Bears. Client sleeping in unheated room per family. Reported to family. Reported to family. Reported to family.

“She told you,” Lyndon said to Robyn. “Friday. Cassie told you she’d gone cold.”

“She tells me everything is cold.”

“The bank has a copy too,” I said. “And the agency. And Traci at Belleville.”

That was the most I said all afternoon.

Robyn turned to her mother. “Mom. Tell them. You saw her Saturday. You were right there.”

Esperanza had her glasses on the beaded chain. She put them on.

“I saw the room, Robyn.”

“What room?”

“The room off the garage. With the cot. I went Sunday.” Esperanza laced her fingers. “You told us she asked for it. For her knees.”

“She did…”

“She didn’t.” Esperanza looked at her husband. “Mark. Tell them about March.”

Mark looked at his empty hands like there should be a glass in them.

“Esperanza.”

“Tell them, or I will.”

He cleared his throat. “The lot closed in March,” he said. “Lease ran out. The bank in Florida called the note in August. It’s a personal guarantee.” He looked at his daughter. “Robyn co-signed it. In 2023. When it was going good.”

Lyndon put the binder down.

“So it’s your loan,” he said to Robyn. “If Friday doesn’t close, it’s you they come after.”

Robyn didn’t answer him. She looked at me.

“You did this,” she said. “You sat on that cot for nine nights and let me do it. You could have said one word. You said sorry. You said it was fine. You let me think…”

Her voice went up.

“I needed ONE thing. One thing out of this whole house full of crackers and quilts and dead people’s pictures, and you had it in a shoebox the whole time.”

Then she took the ring off.

She didn’t throw it. She set it on the revocation, on the purple stamp, very carefully.

“Lyndon,” she said. “Get your keys. We’re going to the hotel.”

Lyndon didn’t move.

Mark picked up the ring and put it in his sport coat pocket. Esperanza took her coat off the chair.

Robyn stood there one more second. Then she went out the front door by herself, and Esperanza went after her.

Lyndon took his phone out and dialed the number off the top of the commitment letter.

“This is Lyndon Wendt,” he said. “I need to withdraw an application.”

The sandwich bag

Lyndon took an apartment above a tire shop across town, the first week of December. He said he couldn’t sleep in a house where he’d signed that.

I didn’t argue. I wanted to.

Cassie works for me now, Monday, Wednesday and Friday, not through anybody. I pay her what the agency charged me, out of the account Jim and I kept for the roof.

The roof is original. It’ll have to keep being original.

The first Sunday of December Lyndon came over at noon in his old work boots.

He carried the three pieces of my headboard up the stairs, one at a time, and he didn’t let Cassie help.

The big bedroom still smelled like the new bedding. I’d given that to the church.

He knelt on the carpet. He peeled the sandwich bag off the back of the headboard where it had been taped for a month, and he tipped the screws out into his palm and counted them.

His father used to tape the screws to the back of everything he took apart.

He set the rails. He set the slats. He turned every screw in by hand first, then with the drill.

Cassie brought up my mother’s quilt from the room off the garage, and the two of them pulled it square over the mattress, blue and white, the double rings lined up at the foot the way my mother pieced them.

Lyndon sat back on his heels.

Then he held out the empty sandwich bag to me.

I took it downstairs and put it in the shoebox with the Christmas cards.

If this one got to you, sit this week with somebody who is older than you, and ask whose name is on the paper, and why.

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