My Ex’s Truck Has Sat Behind My Dad’s Welding Shop For Three Weeks

Daniel Foster

The woman whose shutoff notices I put in her mailbox every month slammed a gold locket on my uncle’s pawn counter, where I work Saturdays, and said it was worth $800. I offered $140. “Get me a real manager, not the mail lady,” she said, loud enough for the whole store to hear. Then I opened the locket.

I’ve carried the same rural route for nineteen years.

I know whose checks come late and whose letters come from the county jail, and I’ve never said a word about any of it to anybody.

That’s the job.

So when Kaitlin Dekoning started yelling, I kept both hands flat on the glass and my face blank.

“Eight hundred,” she said. “It’s fourteen karat. My husband’s mother wore it every day of her life.”

“It’s gold-filled,” I said. “There’s a stamp right on the bail. One forty is generous.”

“You drive a mail truck. Don’t tell me what’s generous.”

A man at the gun case stopped cracking sunflower seeds to watch.

He had shells all down the front of his flannel and didn’t seem to care.

Two girls by the guitars got their phones out.

Uncle Bobby came out of the back with his reading glasses pushed up on his head and half a bologna sandwich still in his hand.

“What’s the trouble out here?”

“She’s the trouble,” Kaitlin said, and pointed at me with a long pink nail. “I want SOMEBODY WHO KNOWS GOLD.”

Bobby looked at the locket. Then at me.

“Deanna’s right,” he said. “One forty.”

Kaitlin laughed with her whole mouth open.

What I didn’t say was that I’d put three shutoff notices in her box since August.

Electric. Then water. Then electric again, with the red stripe across the top.

What I didn’t say was that her husband had filed a change of address on the ninth.

His mail didn’t go to that house anymore.

Only hers did.

I picked the locket up to check the hinge, because that’s what you do before you buy one. A loose hinge knocks off twenty bucks.

The back had a worn spot, like a thumb had rubbed it for years.

Under the worn spot, two letters were scratched in by hand.

A D and an E.

I put my other hand on the counter.

I’d scratched those letters myself, with the point of a compass, in senior-year geometry.

I opened it.

On the left, a boy in a rented tux with his hair gelled into spikes and a carnation pinned crooked. Elliot. Seventeen.

On the right, a girl in a yellow satin dress with a corsage on her wrist.

Where her face should’ve been there was a neat little hole.

Cut with nail scissors, close and careful, right around the hairline.

I’d know that dress anywhere. My mother sewed it on her kitchen table in four nights.

“Is something wrong with the HINGE?” Kaitlin said.

“No,” I said.

“Then pay me.”

“Where’d you get this?”

She leaned across the glass, close enough that I could smell her coffee.

“Out of my husband’s wallet,” she said. “Behind his license. Where he’s apparently kept it for twenty-nine years. I found it doing the laundry.”

The seed man quit chewing.

“So I cut HER out,” Kaitlin said. “Whoever she was. And now I want what it’s worth, because he owes me a hell of a lot more than eight hundred dollars.”

Her eyes were shining, but her chin stayed up.

For about one second I felt for her.

Then she said, “Some high school tramp he never got over. Probably fat now. Probably lives in a trailer with six cats.”

One of the girls by the guitars made a noise behind her hand.

Bobby looked at me over his glasses. He knew. He was the one who drove us to that prom in his Cadillac.

“Kaitlin,” I said. “Elliot gave this to me when we were seventeen. I gave it back the week I left for basic training.”

Her mouth stayed open.

“YOU?” she said. “YOU’RE THE FACE?”

“I was,” I said.

She looked at the hole, then at me, then back at the hole.

She got quiet after that. Quieter than anybody in that store.

“You’re the mail lady,” she said. “You know where his mail goes now. Don’t you.”

I did.

When his change of address came through the office, I’m the one who sorted it.

It was going to a box on my own route.

A yellow house at the end of a gravel road, with a mailbox my dad welded out of a propane tank.

My mother’s house.

I’d been putting a man’s mail in my mother’s box for three weeks and telling myself it was a mistake somebody else would catch.

“I can’t tell you that,” I said.

“I’m not asking the post office,” Kaitlin said. “I’m asking YOU.”

Behind me, Bobby set his sandwich down on the counter, very slowly.

He’d eaten Sunday supper at my mother’s every week since my dad died. Eleven years.

And last Sunday, for the first time, she’d called him and told him not to come.

Half a bologna sandwich

Kaitlin was still waiting on me. So was the whole store.

I closed the locket and set it on the glass between us, hinge side toward her.

“We’re not buying it today, ma’am,” Bobby said.

“I didn’t ask you.”

“You asked for the manager. That’s me. We’re not buying it.”

She laughed again, shorter, and started digging in her purse for her keys.

I leaned back toward Bobby.

“Why’d she tell you not to come?” I said.

He kept his eyes on Kaitlin. He said it out of the side of his mouth, the way he used to tell me what a guitar was really worth before the customer could hear.

“Because his truck’s in her yard, Dee. Out back by your dad’s shop. I drove by anyway Sunday. It’s been there every time I’ve looked since.”

I kept my hands flat on the glass.

Behind my dad’s shop there’s a woodstove and an old Army cot and a bench vise he bolted down in 1981.

Nobody’s slept out there since he died.

Kaitlin found her keys. She picked the locket up off the counter and closed her fist around it.

“You think I can’t find out myself,” she said.

“I think you ought to go home,” Bobby said.

“Home to WHAT? The lights are off half the time.” She pointed the fist at me. “And she knows it. She’s the one who puts it in my box.”

The seed man went back to his seeds, slow, like he didn’t want to miss anything by chewing too loud.

One of the girls by the guitars still had her phone up. The red dot was on.

Kaitlin saw it and turned toward it instead of away.

“Get it all,” she said to the girl. “Get her face. That’s the mail lady on Route Three. She’ll tell you everybody’s business but mine.”

I’ve never told anybody’s business. Not once in nineteen years.

I didn’t say that either.

There’s a plastic skeleton Bobby hangs in the front window every October. It’s been the same skeleton since about 1990, and one arm is held on with electrical tape. Kaitlin brushed it on her way to the door and it swung around and knocked on the glass.

She opened the door. The cowbell over it rang.

She stopped with the door half open and the cold coming in.

“I know what time you come by my house,” she said. “Eleven-fifty. Every day but Sunday.”

Yellow satin

My mother made that dress in April of 1997, on the kitchen table in the yellow house, while my dad watched the Reds in the front room.

She bought the satin in Columbus with grocery money and hid the receipt in her Bible.

She kept her pins in a blue Royal Dansk cookie tin with the picture worn off the lid where her thumb went. Every scrap she ever cut went in that tin with the pins. She said you never knew.

I stood on a kitchen chair for every fitting.

“Elliot’s a nice boy,” she said the second night, with pins in her mouth. “Nice boys stay in Chillicothe.”

I thought she meant it as a good thing. I thought she liked him.

Everybody liked him. My dad liked him best.

Elliot worked two summers in Dad’s welding shop out back, sweeping slag and holding things steady while Dad ran a bead. The mailbox was his doing as much as Dad’s. The summer we were sixteen, Dad cut the end off an old propane tank, and Elliot held it level on the post for most of an afternoon while Dad welded it on.

It’s still out there. It still takes the mail.

Elliot gave me the locket in March. I scratched our letters into the back the next week in fourth-period geometry, with my compass, under the desk. Mr. Ehrlich took the compass away for the rest of the semester.

Uncle Bobby drove us to prom in his Cadillac because Elliot’s truck didn’t have a back seat and my mother wasn’t letting me go to a dance in a pickup. Bobby wore a tie. He took the picture in Mom’s front room.

Mom had it printed twice. Once small, for the locket. Once eight by ten, for her hallway.

The big one has hung between the bathroom door and the thermostat ever since. Both of us in it. My face and all.

I’d signed my enlistment papers in March and didn’t tell Elliot till May.

The week before I left, I gave him the locket back in the Dairy Queen parking lot.

“Don’t wait on me,” I said. “I mean it.”

He didn’t argue. That’s the part that stuck to me for years. He put the locket in his shirt pocket and nodded and drove home.

I didn’t give him my address at Fort Jackson. I told him if he ever needed me, he knew where my mother lived.

Nothing came.

Not at basic. Not at my first duty station. Not in nine years. I married a staff sergeant in Killeen, Texas, and got unmarried from him four years after that. I came home in 2006 and took the route in 2007.

By then Elliot was a welder with his own rig, and he’d built a house on Ridge Road, and that house was on my route.

He married Kaitlin in 2016. I put the wedding cards in their box. I put his mother’s birthday cards in their box. In June I put forty-one sympathy cards in their box, after Fern Dekoning passed. I counted them, because I count everything.

Every December, the week before Christmas, my mother got one card with no return address.

Block capitals on the envelope. Chillicothe postmark. The stamp on a little crooked.

I put that card in the propane tank nineteen Decembers in a row and never once asked who it was from.

That’s the job too.

In the store, the girls by the guitars left without buying anything. The seed man bought a box of twelve-gauge shells and swept his seed hulls off the glass into his own hand on the way out.

At quarter after two, three hours early, Bobby turned the sign on the door around to CLOSED.

“Come in the back,” he said. “There’s something you ought to see.”

He held the curtain to the back room open and waited for me to go through it.

August fourteenth

Every buy at Bobby’s goes two places. It goes in the green ledger book, in Bobby’s handwriting, because he doesn’t trust the computer. And it goes in the computer, because the sheriff makes him, with a scan of the seller’s license.

He opened the book on his desk next to the rest of his sandwich and turned pages back.

Past September. Into August.

He put his finger on a line and turned the book around for me.

8/14. K. Dekoning. Ladies band 14K, worn, engr. inside. Chain 14K w/ cross. $310.

“That’s the week you were at the lake,” he said.

It was. I take one week a year. I’d been at Lake White with a cooler and a paperback.

“She stood right where she stood today,” Bobby said. “Same nails. Different story. Said it was junk from a yard sale she wanted gone.”

“What’s the engraving?”

He went to the safe. He has a little tray in there for the things he hasn’t put in the case yet, or can’t make himself put in the case. He brought the ring out on a square of felt and set it under the lamp.

A plain band, thin on the bottom from years of wear.

Inside, in script, F.D. 6-12-71.

I knew that ring.

Fern Dekoning lived on Pleasant Valley Road for the whole first eleven years I carried. Every Christmas she ordered fruitcakes for half the county, and every Christmas I brought the boxes up her steps and she signed my scanner with that hand. The ring clicked on the plastic every time.

She was buried in June. I’d assumed she was buried with it.

“Fourteen karat,” I said.

“That’s how she knew to say it today.” Bobby sat down. His chair groaned. “She’s sold me fourteen karat before. She knows what the word does.”

My husband’s mother wore it every day of her life.

She’d said that about the locket. It was true about this.

“Does Elliot know?” I said.

“I don’t know what Elliot knows. I kept meaning to call him.” Bobby rubbed his eyes under the glasses. “Then I figured if I called him, I’d be in the middle of something.”

The first electric notice to Ridge Road came August twentieth. Six days after this line in the book.

The water notice came in September.

The red stripe came October fifth.

I didn’t do the arithmetic out loud. Bobby can count too.

“That’s an estate,” Bobby said. “She took that out of a dead woman’s house before the will was even read. That’s a call to the sheriff.”

“It’s Elliot’s mother. It’s Elliot’s call.”

“Then call Elliot.”

“I’m not calling Elliot.”

He looked at me a long time. He’s sixty-eight. He looks more like my dad every year, which is hard on both of us.

“Your mother has never once in eleven years told me not to come,” he said. “Not when she had the flu. Not the Sunday after your dad’s stone went in. Never.”

He put the ring back on the felt and pushed it an inch toward me.

“So. You want to call her, or do I?”

The community page

I called her from my truck in Bobby’s lot with the engine running for the heat.

She picked up on the fifth ring. She always picks up on the second.

“Mom. Is anybody out there with you?”

“Just me and Wheel of Fortune, honey.” She coughed, the cough she does when she’s buying time. “I was fixing to lie down.”

“It’s three o’clock.”

“Well, I’m seventy-one.”

I let it sit. She let it sit longer. She’s better at that than me. She taught me.

“You coming tomorrow?” she said.

“Bobby isn’t.”

“Bobby’s a grown man. He can eat his own supper one Sunday.”

“Is Elliot Dekoning living in Dad’s shop?”

She didn’t answer that. She said she had to go, the kettle was on, and she hung up. My mother doesn’t own a kettle. She makes tea in the microwave and always has.

So that was my first try.

I sat there with the phone in my lap.

It buzzed before I could put it in gear. A text from Hadley, a girl on my route who gets more packages than anybody in Ross County.

Miss Deanna is this you?? I’m so sorry

Then a link.

The Chillicothe community page on Facebook has nine thousand members and most of them are on my route. One of the girls from the guitars had posted the video at 2:31. By the time I opened it, it had been shared a hundred and some times.

It’s forty-four seconds long. You can’t hear what I say about the stamp on the bail. You can hear every word Kaitlin says about the trailer and the six cats.

You can see my face just fine.

And under it, Kaitlin had shared it to her own page with her own words on top.

This is the MAIL LADY on Route 3 who has been with my husband behind my back for who knows how long and who reads everybody’s mail. Ask her where he is. She knows. Ask her where his mail goes.

Two hundred comments by three-fifteen.

Some of them were people I’d delivered to for nineteen years saying I’d never done a thing but bring them their mail. Some were people I’d never met saying I looked like the type.

Somebody named Gage had tagged the Chillicothe Post Office page. Then somebody else did. Then somebody had tagged the regional postal inspector, which isn’t even a page.

I put the phone face down on the seat.

It rang. I turned it over. The office number.

I let it go to voicemail and then listened to it with the phone tight against my ear, like Bobby could hear it through the window.

“Deanna, it’s Cristina.” My postmaster. She doesn’t call on Saturdays. “Somebody’s been calling the main line about you since two-thirty. Come see me Monday before you case your route. Before, okay? Not after.”

I drove out to my mother’s.

It’s eleven miles from Bobby’s and the last mile is gravel. I’ve driven it in my mail truck six days a week for nineteen years and in my own truck on Sundays my whole life, and I can tell you where every pothole is in the dark.

The propane tank was at the end of the drive with the flag down.

The hallway light was on in the house, and the kitchen light.

And out back, parked nose-in by the door of Dad’s shop, was a gray Silverado with a welding rig in the bed and a Ridge Road Fire Department sticker on the back glass.

Smoke was coming up out of the stovepipe on the shop roof.

There were two coffee cups in the dish rack in the kitchen window. I could see them from the drive.

The kitchen door was unlocked. It always is.

The cookie tin

My mother was sitting at the kitchen table in her church cardigan with the TV off.

She didn’t get up.

“You said you were lying down,” I said.

“I was going to.”

“His truck’s out back.”

“Did you eat?” she said. “There’s ham.”

“Mom.”

She folded her hands on the oilcloth. Her knuckles are bigger than they used to be. She can’t do the small pins anymore.

“She changed the locks on him the eighth,” she said. “The eighth of October. He came home from a job in Waverly and his key didn’t work and his clothes were in Hefty bags at the end of the drive. He slept in that truck two nights in the Kroger lot.”

“How do you know that?”

“Because he called me.”

“Why would Elliot call you?”

She looked at the hallway. I could see it from my chair. The eight by ten, between the bathroom door and the thermostat. Both of us. My face and all.

“Your dad would have done the same,” she said.

“That’s not what I asked.”

“And Bobby can’t keep a thing off his face. He’d have had it to you by Monday.”

“So you put Elliot in Dad’s shop and lied to Bobby and lied to me.”

“I didn’t lie to you. You never asked.”

I told her about the locket. About the hole where my face was, cut close around the hairline. About the girl with the phone and the forty-four seconds and the six cats.

I didn’t tell her about the ring yet. One thing at a time with her.

She listened to the whole thing without moving her hands.

Then she got up. It takes her two tries now. She went to the sewing cabinet in the corner, the one Dad built her out of a church pew, and she came back with the blue Royal Dansk tin and set it on the oilcloth in front of me.

“I was going to give you this at Thanksgiving,” she said.

“You don’t sew anymore.”

“Open it.”

The lid stuck the way it always stuck. I got a thumbnail under it.

Pins on top, loose, a whole layer of them. A tape measure. Scraps of a hundred things she’d made. Kitchen curtains. My Brownie vest. A Halloween cape.

And yellow satin. A strip of it, folded small, the same yellow as the hole in the locket.

Under the satin there was a stack of envelopes with a rubber band around them so old it had gone stiff and stuck to the paper.

The top one said DEANNA in block capitals. And under that, my mother’s box number. RR 3 BOX 4417.

The E’s had a little hook on the bottom of them.

I took the rubber band off. Half of it came off in a crumb.

I went through them the way I go through a tray at six in the morning. Fast, by the corner, reading the postmarks.

CHILLICOTHE OH 456. JUN 30 1997.

JUL 7 1997.

JUL 14 1997.

Every Monday. Thirty-two-cent flag stamps, put on a little crooked.

August. September. Thanksgiving week. Two in December.

The last one was MAR 9 1998. It was thinner than the others.

Thirty-one of them. None of them opened.

“You read the Christmas ones,” I said. “Every year. The ones with no return address.”

“He asks how you are,” my mother said. “That’s all he ever writes. How’s Deanna. I write him back and tell him.”

“For nineteen years.”

“For twenty-eight.”

I held the March one up to the kitchen light. I could see the shape of a single sheet folded once.

“Why,” I said.

She picked at the oilcloth where it’s worn through at the corner.

“You were eighteen and you had a way out,” she said. “I’d been eighteen too. I meant to send them on. And then it was a month. And then you wrote me from Fort Jackson so happy, and then it was a year, and then it was too late to do anything but keep them.”

“You could have burned them.”

“I couldn’t do that either.”

Somebody stamped his boots on the back step.

The storm door opened and a man came in with an armload of split oak and the cold coming in off him.

He was bigger than seventeen. Gray in the beard. Still had the same crooked way of standing, like he was holding something level for somebody.

He saw the tin. He saw the envelopes in my hands with the hooked E’s on top.

He put the wood down in the box by the stove, very carefully, one piece at a time.

“Hey, Dee,” he said.

The propane tank

He sat down across from me Saturday night with his coat still on and didn’t touch the letters.

“You never wrote back,” he said.

“I never got them.”

He looked at my mother. She looked at her coffee cup.

That was most of what got said Saturday. I left the letters on the table and the tin open and went home and didn’t sleep.

Sunday morning I called Bobby. He opened the shop for me at nine with the sign still on CLOSED.

I paid him $310 for Fern Dekoning’s wedding ring.

He didn’t want it. He tried to push the money back across the glass twice. It came out of the coffee can in my cupboard that I’d been filling since spring for a transmission, and I made him take every bill of it, because it was his money that bought the ring in August and it was going to be my money that bought it back. That mattered to me in a way I couldn’t have said out loud.

He kept the little paper tag on it. His handwriting. 8/14 K.D. $310.

Monday at 5:40 a.m. I was in Cristina’s office with the door shut.

“Did you tell that woman where her husband’s mail goes?” she said.

“No.”

“Did you tell anybody?”

“No.”

“Are you” She stopped and started over. “Is there anything going on that’s going to make me put something in your file?”

“Not yet,” I said.

She looked at me a while and told me to go case my route.

I bought a padded envelope at my own window with my own money. I put the ring in it with Bobby’s tag still on. I addressed it to Elliot Dekoning at RR 3 Box 4417 in my own handwriting and put first-class postage on it like anybody else. Then I cased it with the rest of his mail. Three pieces. A bill from Lowe’s, a letter from a lawyer in Columbus, and mine.

You can’t put something in somebody’s mailbox without a stamp on it. That’s federal. I’ve told a hundred people that over the years. I wasn’t going to be the one to do it.

At 11:50 I came up Ridge Road.

Kaitlin’s Altima was parked at the end of her drive, running, right next to her box.

I put her mail in. A Kohl’s flyer and a notice from the electric company that said DISCONNECTION SCHEDULED across the top.

She watched me do it through her windshield and didn’t get out.

When I pulled off, she pulled out behind me.

She followed me nine miles. Every box. Every stop. Twenty-five miles an hour on the shoulder with her flashers on, which is what I do, so she did it too. She waited every time I leaned out the window.

At the bottom of my mother’s gravel road she was still back there.

I stopped at the propane tank and opened it and put Elliot’s three pieces in.

Kaitlin got out of her car before I’d shut the door on it.

She stood in the gravel and looked up the drive at the gray Silverado behind the shop and the smoke from the stovepipe, and then at the yellow house, and then at me.

“I KNEW it,” she said. “Your MOTHER’S. You put him at your mother’s.”

I didn’t say anything.

“Three weeks,” she said. “Three weeks, I’ve been sitting in the dark in that house, and he’s out here with the mail lady and her mommy eating ham. Is that what this is? Is that what you’ve been doing to me, every day at eleven-fifty?”

The shop door opened. Elliot came down the drive with his hands in his coat pockets. He didn’t hurry.

“There he is,” Kaitlin said. “There he IS. You want to know what you owe me, Elliot? Half. Half that house. Half your mother’s house when it closes in December. I sat with that woman every Thursday for a year. I EARNED half of that.”

“You sat with her twice,” Elliot said.

“I am talking,” she said.

She took the locket out of her coat pocket and held it up by the chain so he could see it swing.

“You carried HER in your wallet. Behind your license. Behind MY picture. Twenty-nine years. Do you know what that is to find in somebody’s jeans when you’re doing their laundry? And she brings you your mail. Every day. Like some kind of”

She didn’t have a word for it. She shook the locket at me instead.

Elliot reached into the propane tank. He took out his mail.

He looked at the padded envelope with my handwriting on it. Then at me.

He opened it standing there in the gravel.

The ring came out into his palm with Bobby’s little tag still tied on it with a thread.

He turned it to the light the way you’d turn a part to look at a weld. He read the inside. He read the tag.

Kaitlin saw it.

“Where’d you get that,” she said to me. “Where did you GET that.”

“Bobby bought it August fourteenth,” I said. “You showed him your license.”

Elliot didn’t look up from his hand.

Kaitlin’s face did a lot of things fast.

“She was DEAD, Elliot,” she said. “She was in the ground. What was she going to do with a ring? We had the electric. Somebody in that house had to think about the electric, and it sure wasn’t you, you were out on a job every day till dark.”

And there it was. I’d carried nineteen years of other people’s business and never once put any of it down in front of anybody.

“The red stripe came October fifth,” I said.

Kaitlin turned around to me so fast her shoes slid on the gravel.

“What?”

“The electric. The last notice. It came seven weeks after Bobby paid you.”

It was quiet. The stovepipe ticked.

“That’s my mail,” she said. “That’s MY MAIL. You can’t say that. That’s federal. I’ll have your job. I’ll call that office every day until they take your truck.”

“Okay,” I said.

Elliot closed his hand around the ring.

My mother had come out on the porch in her church cardigan. She didn’t come down the steps. She stood there with one hand on the post.

Kaitlin looked at all three of us.

Then she pulled open the propane tank, threw the locket in with nothing around it, slammed the door and put the flag up.

“There,” she said. “Deliver that, mail lady.”

She got in her car and spun gravel on my truck, all the way up the road.

The flag was up. When the flag’s up, I stop. That’s the rule.

I opened the box and took the locket out.

Sunday supper

Kaitlin did call the office. She called it eleven times in one week.

There’s a letter of warning in my file now. The first in nineteen years. Cristina read it to me with the door shut, and the part about disclosing a customer’s mail she read twice, slow, so I’d know she meant it.

I signed it.

Three Sundays later Bobby’s Cadillac was in my mother’s yard again at four o’clock. He brought a pie from the Kroger he swore he made.

Elliot’s truck was still out back by Dad’s shop. His mail still comes to the propane tank. I still put it in. A lawyer from Columbus writes him every week now, and the Ridge Road house has a sign in the yard.

I’ve read fourteen of the thirty-one letters. One a night, at my own kitchen table, in order of the postmarks.

I haven’t opened the March one yet.

We ate ham. Bobby told the story about the skeleton’s arm for the hundredth time. Elliot wore his mother’s ring on his little finger because it won’t go past the first knuckle of any of the others.

On my way back from the bathroom I stopped in the hallway.

The eight by ten was hanging where it always hangs, between the bathroom door and the thermostat.

Elliot in his rented tux with his crooked carnation.

And next to him a girl in a yellow satin dress, with a neat little hole where her face should be.

Cut with nail scissors. Close and careful.

When I sat back down, my mother slid the locket across the oilcloth to me.

I opened it.

On the left, Elliot. Seventeen.

On the right, me. Seventeen. My own face fitted into my own dress, trimmed right around the hairline. You’d have to know to see the edge.

Elliot reached over and took a roll off my plate like he used to.

“What’s it worth now?” he said.

“One forty,” I said, and put it in my shirt pocket.

If this one got to you, send it to somebody who still has a tin like that in a closet somewhere and has never once opened it.

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