A man in a work jacket stood behind a crying nursing aide at register four and told her, “If you can’t pay for a baby, don’t have one,” because her card wouldn’t cover a $38 box of diapers. Half the store heard it and kept their eyes on their carts. I’m seventy-six, I’d only come in for a furnace filter, and I couldn’t let it go.
She’d come straight off a double shift at the grocery out by the bypass in Rapid City, and that box was the only thing she’d put on the belt.
Her scrubs were creased at the knees, and the badge clipped to her pocket said Itzel.
A rack of pumpkin air fresheners blocked half my view of the card reader.
It beeped, and Candice shook her head at the screen like she’d been through this before.
“Can you try it once more? I got paid Tuesday,” Itzel said.
Another beep. Declined again.
That’s when the guy behind me laughed and said, “If you can’t pay for a baby, DON’T HAVE ONE.”
Two lanes over somebody’s cart wheel squeaked, and that was the only sound in the place.
He leaned in past my shoulder and added that some of us had worked today too, and this wasn’t a soup kitchen.
Her shoulders went up around her ears.
She started sliding the box back toward Candice with two fingers.
Something I’d packed away fifty-eight years ago turned over in my chest.
“Leave that box right where it is,” I said.
I shoved my card in the reader and told Candice to ring it.
He snorted behind me. “Look at Grandpa, buying himself a ticket to heaven.”
I turned around.
It took me a while, because my left hip doesn’t hurry for anybody, and I let him watch every second of it.
“I was eighteen when they flew me somewhere you couldn’t find on a map, and I carried boys home who were YOUNGER THAN HER,” I said.
His eyes went to his cart.
“Over there nobody asked what the man beside them could afford. You stood up for him. That was the deal, and you just BROKE IT.”
People in three lanes were looking at him now.
He said something into his collar, left his cart sitting at the end of the belt, and walked out the sliding doors.
Just gone.
When I turned back, Itzel was wiping her face on her sleeve with the box held against her hip.
I gave her the receipt.
Her phone buzzed face-up on the belt, and the picture on its lock screen stopped me COLD. ⬇️
Register four, 8:40 p.m.
It was a hospital room. A young man in tan Army camouflage sat on the edge of the bed with a newborn in the crook of his arm, and Itzel was propped up behind him with her hair stuck to her forehead.
Leaning over the soldier’s shoulder, one hand on the back of his neck, grinning at whoever held the camera, was the man in the work jacket.
Same jacket. Same gray coming in over the ears.
The text on top of the picture said Mom, 1 new message. I didn’t read that part. I was looking at his hand on that boy’s neck.
I picked the phone up off the belt before I thought about whether I had any right to, and I held it out to her.
“Who’s that?”
She took it out of my hand and pressed it face-down against the diapers.
“That’s Jarrod. That’s the baby’s dad.”
“I meant the other one.”
Candice had her hand on the receipt printer and wasn’t pretending to do anything else.
Itzel looked at the sliding doors he’d walked out of. Her chin was still going.
“That’s his father,” she said. “That’s Grayson’s grandpa.”
I have been yelled at by drill sergeants and by a wife of forty-four years and by a man at the VA who thought I’d cut in line. I have never been yelled at by family in a grocery store in front of strangers. I didn’t know what to say to her, so I asked the dumbest thing in my head.
“Does he know your card got declined?”
“He’ll know before I get home,” she said. “He’s got a key to my apartment.”
The Corolla
I walked her out because my hip needed walking and because I didn’t want her crossing that lot alone if he was sitting in it.
He wasn’t. Her car was a gold Corolla with a dent in the back door and a car seat base belted in behind the passenger side, a plastic mirror strapped to the headrest so a baby could see himself.
“Where’s the baby tonight?”
“Lady downstairs. Forty dollars on double days.” She set the box on the roof of the car and leaned on it. “He’s five weeks Tuesday.”
She talked the way people talk to strangers in parking lots, which is more than they’d tell their own mother.
Jarrod enlisted a year ago last August. He shipped to Kuwait in June when she was seven months along, and the Army let him fly home for ten days in September, which is when that picture got taken. They weren’t married. They were going to be, when he got back, at the courthouse, and then a real party later.
Her credit wouldn’t pass for the apartment on her own, so Jarrod’s father co-signed the lease. He kept a key. “In case,” he’d told her.
He came over Sundays. He’d stand in her kitchen and open her refrigerator and tell her Jarrod had asked him to look after the two of them.
“Jarrod sends what he can,” she said. “His dad handles that side of it.”
“What side?”
“The money side. Jarrod’s still paying on his truck. It’s sitting in his dad’s driveway.”
I didn’t say anything to that. I was thinking about a man named Douglas.
My mother married Douglas when I was eleven. When I got over there in 1968, I signed eighty dollars a month of my pay home to her, and Douglas was the one who walked out to the mailbox. My mother’s letters said they were managing fine. I came home to a lien on her house and a man who’d bought a bass boat.
I never told her I knew. She died thinking I didn’t.
Itzel was looking at me like I’d gone somewhere, which I had.
“Turn that receipt over,” I said.
I wrote my phone number on the back of it with the pen I keep in my shirt pocket for crossword puzzles. Under it I wrote any time, and then I felt like an old fool and handed it to her anyway.
She folded it into the pocket with the badge. She thanked me three times. I told her once was plenty.
The Corolla’s taillights went left onto the bypass. Then I went back through the sliding doors for my filter.
His cart
My filter was still at the end of the belt where I’d set it down. Sixteen by twenty-five by one. My furnace is a 1994 Carrier, and a kid from the heating company told me in September a new one would run fifty-two hundred dollars. I’ve got most of that in an envelope in my freezer. Until I’m ready to part with it, I buy filters.
His cart was still there too. Candice had pulled it out of the lane and was standing with her hand on the handle like she didn’t know whether to put it all back or wait for him.
Two ribeyes. A thirty-pack of Busch Light. A carton of Marlboro Reds. A bag of charcoal, in October, in South Dakota.
“He’ll be back for the steaks,” Candice said. “He’s back for the steaks every Thursday.”
“Every Thursday?”
“About eight. My lane. Same as the clock.” She took the cigarettes out and set them on the counter for the office. “Pays cash. Out of a First Interstate envelope, twenties, folds them in half.”
A boy in a Broncos hoodie went by mopping, and she waited for him to get out of earshot.
“I’ll tell you something, and you didn’t hear it from me.”
“I didn’t hear anything.”
“The cement plant let him go in April. He told me himself, standing right there, the week after. Told me if his wife ever came through my lane, I didn’t know a thing about it.” She tipped her head at the sliding doors. “That jacket hasn’t been near a cement plant since Easter.”
Some of us worked today too.
I paid for my filter. Candice ran it and gave me my change and didn’t close her drawer.
“That girl’s been short three Thursdays now,” she said. “Puts something back every time. Wipes, the formula sample, a can of soup. Tonight was the first time she put the only thing back.”
“She said he’s helping her.”
Candice laughed once, through her nose.
“Hon, last week he told me he pays half her rent.”
Saturday, 7:10 a.m.
The phone rang while I was standing at the stove waiting on an egg.
Nobody calls me at seven on a Saturday. My daughter lives in Phoenix and calls Sundays after church, and the pharmacy texts. I almost let it go.
“It’s Itzel. From the store.” Then, like I might have bought diapers for some other girl that week: “With the diapers.”
She’d slept from four Friday morning until about one in the afternoon. When she came out of the bedroom, he was in her kitchen.
He’d let himself in with the key. He hadn’t knocked, or if he had she didn’t hear it, and the lady downstairs had brought Grayson up at noon, so he’d been standing in that kitchen holding her son while she slept.
“He was nice,” she said. “That’s the thing. He was nice the whole time.”
He’d told her he was sorry about the store. He’d had a long week. Then he’d told her he heard some old man had to pay for her, and did she know how that looked, the mother of his grandson taking handouts from strangers in front of half of Rapid City.
He said Noreen was home all day. Noreen is his wife. She knits Grayson little hats, one a week, green and orange. He said on double days Grayson ought to stay at their house, not with some lady downstairs, and if Itzel couldn’t manage, maybe Grayson ought to stay with them more than that.
“He said he’d talk to Jarrod about it,” she said. “Get everybody on the same page.”
So that was my thirty-eight dollars. I’d bought him his evidence.
I turned the burner off. The egg was ruined anyway.
“Did Jarrod call?”
“He texted. Just now. It’s five in the afternoon there.” I could hear her breathing different. “Can I read it to you? I don’t know who else to read it to.”
“Read it.”
She read it the way he’d typed it, flat, no punctuation.
Dad says you made a scene at the store and some old guy had to pay for your stuff.
He says hes been bringing you my 600 every month since August.
Itz where is it going
The deli tables
We met Sunday at noon at the tables by the deli, because it was public and because it was the only place I could think of.
She brought Grayson in his car seat and set him on the chair beside her. He had on a green hat with an orange pom-pom. He was asleep with his mouth open, and I’ll admit he looked like every baby I’ve ever seen.
“I’ve never had six hundred dollars from that man,” she said before I sat down. “Not once. Not one envelope. I told Jarrod and he said why would his dad lie, and I said I don’t know, and he went to sleep mad.”
“Ask him how he sends it.”
“What?”
“The money. Ask him how it gets from Kuwait to his dad. Ask him for the screen.”
She typed it. It was nine at night over there. We sat with two coffees I’d bought and neither of us drank any.
I’d brought something too. I’d stood at my freezer that morning with the furnace envelope open on the counter, and I’d counted six hundred-dollar bills out of it into a plain one from the drawer, and I’d put the rest back behind the frozen peas. It was in my coat. I hadn’t decided yet how to give it to her without her refusing it.
Her phone buzzed on the table.
She picked it up and her face went still, and then she turned it so I could see.
Three screenshots from his banking app. August 1, six hundred dollars. September 1, six hundred dollars. October 1, six hundred dollars. All three sent to Adam, the same last name as Jarrod, and in the little memo line under each one, the same four words.
for Itz and Gray
Under the screenshots Jarrod had written, He told me he hands it to you in person. Every month. He told me you cry when he gives it to you.
Then another bubble came up.
And the truck’s been paid off since before I shipped. I paid it with my bonus. What is he talking about
Itzel put the phone down on the table, face-down, the way she had at the register.
“He leaves at six every morning,” she said. “Noreen packs him a lunch. He was in his jacket Thursday.”
I took the envelope out of my coat and slid it under the edge of Grayson’s car seat where she’d have to move him to give it back.
“That’s October,” I said. “Don’t argue.”
She argued anyway, for a while. Grayson woke up and settled it by wanting her.
When he was quiet again she said, “What do I even do. He’s Jarrod’s dad. Jarrod’s on the other side of the world.”
“Ask Noreen to meet you at register four. Thursday, eight o’clock.”
The First Interstate envelope
I was there at a quarter till, standing in Candice’s lane with a box of size-one diapers I didn’t need and a package of peanut butter crackers I did.
Candice saw me, saw the diapers, and moved the pumpkin air fresheners six inches to the left so I could see the card reader.
Itzel came in at ten till with Grayson strapped to her chest. Her phone was propped in her hand, and Jarrod was on it, five in the morning in Kuwait, sitting on a cot in a T-shirt with his hair standing up.
Noreen came in at five till. She was a short woman in a purple fleece with a canvas bag of yarn on her arm, and she went straight to Grayson and touched the pom-pom on his hat. Itzel had told her she wanted to go over his schedule for double days. That was true. It just wasn’t all of it.
At eight-oh-four the sliding doors opened and Adam came through them in the work jacket, pushing a cart.
He was halfway down the aisle when he saw us. He kept coming. I’ll give him that.
He looked at his wife. He looked at Itzel. He looked at me last.
“Well, this is cute,” he said. “What is this, Grandpa? You adopt her?”
I didn’t say anything. Candice started ringing the woman ahead of him.
“Noreen, what are you doing here? I told you I’d pick up the steaks.” He put two ribeyes on the belt anyway. The Busch Light. The charcoal. “Itzel, honey, if this is about Friday, I said I was sorry. I said it in your own kitchen.”
“Dad,” Jarrod said from the phone.
Adam stopped with the cigarettes in his hand.
“Dad. I sent Itz the screenshots.”
“Jarrod, buddy, you’re tired, it’s the middle of the night over there, we’ll talk on Sunday like always.” He was talking to the phone and smiling at Noreen. “I’ve been holding some of it back. Okay? Holding. Because she’s twenty-six with a baby and no ring, and you know what she’d do with six hundred cash, she’d blow it, and then where’s Gray? I’ve got it written down. Every penny. I co-signed that lease, you know what rent is in this town? Somebody’s got to be the adult.”
“Forty-one eighty,” Candice said.
He reached into the jacket and took out a white envelope with the First Interstate logo in the corner, folded twenties sticking out the top.
Noreen looked at it.
“Where’d you get cash?” she said. “You get direct deposit.”
“I went to the bank.”
“On a Thursday? You were at the plant.”
He held the envelope out to Candice. Candice didn’t take it.
“I asked you a question,” Noreen said.
“Noreen, not here.”
“You leave at six. I pack your lunch.”
Everybody in lanes three and five had gotten very interested in their carts again. Jarrod didn’t say anything. He was watching his dad’s face on the little screen, the way you watch a man you thought you knew.
Adam put the envelope down on the belt next to the steaks.
“They let me go in April, Noreen. Okay? April. Forty of us. I didn’t tell you because you’d have had me at the unemployment office crying in front of the Pruitt kid. I sit at the Perkins on Omaha Street until three and I come home. That’s what I do. That money was going right back the second I got on somewhere. I wasn’t spending it on anything. I was keeping us afloat. Somebody in this family has to keep us afloat.”
“With Jarrod’s money,” Noreen said.
“It’s family money.”
“He wrote her name on it,” Itzel said.
That was the only thing she said, the whole time.
Noreen stood there with her yarn bag on her arm for what felt like a long time. Then she picked the envelope up off the belt and counted it, right there, licking her thumb, the way my mother used to count the Sunday collection when it was her turn.
“Two hundred and twenty dollars,” she said. She held it out to Itzel. Itzel didn’t move, so Noreen tucked it into the carrier strap on Grayson’s back.
“Give her the key,” Jarrod said.
Adam looked at the phone for a long second. Then he worked the key off his ring and set it on the belt beside the charcoal.
Noreen reached into his jacket pocket like she’d done it ten thousand times and took out his truck keys.
“You can walk to the Perkins,” she said.
She turned and walked out the sliding doors, and they closed behind her.
Sixteen by twenty-five
The first Thursday in December it had snowed, and the lot was gray slush, and I was in Candice’s lane with another filter.
The Carrier made it through November. I don’t know about January. There’s less in the freezer envelope than there was, and I haven’t called the heating company back.
Itzel was in line ahead of me in her maroon scrubs with a box of size-one diapers on the belt. Grayson was on her chest in a new hat, orange with a green pom-pom, the colors switched.
Jarrod’s money comes to her now, on the first, with the same four words on it. Noreen brings dinner over on Sundays. She knocks.
Candice ran the box. The card reader beeped.
“Approved,” Candice said.
Itzel put her phone face-up on the belt to get her bag, and the lock screen lit. Same hospital room, same bed, Jarrod with the baby in the crook of his arm. She’d cropped it close. There was still a hand on the back of Jarrod’s neck, with no arm attached to it.
She saw me looking and didn’t say anything about it.
She held the sliding door open and waited for my hip to catch up.
If somebody once covered you at a register when you were short, send this to them. They’ll know why.
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