People thought we were out of our minds.
Eight kids. Two adults. One rusty trailer full of mismatched boots, worn-out baby toys, and a sourdough starter I barely knew how to use. We had no real plan—just a chunk of land out past nowhere and a shared dream that maybe, just maybe, we could build something real.
We weren’t farmers. I’d barely kept a houseplant alive. But life in the city was squeezing the soul out of us. My partner was working double shifts, I was drowning in laundry and noise, and the kids… man, they were growing up in fast-forward. iPads, school drop-offs, fast food, meltdowns. Repeat.
So one night, we sat on the floor, surrounded by toys and bills, and I said, “Let’s go. Let’s start over.”
I still don’t know why he said yes. But thank God he did.
The farm was a mess. Fencing was half-fallen, there was an old bathtub in the yard, and we had to boil water for the first week just to wash dishes. The twins cried nonstop. The older ones rolled their eyes at everything. But slowly—so slowly—it started to shift.
We managed to get a garden going. It wasn’t much at first, just some vegetables we found at the local store that barely survived our overenthusiastic attempts at planting them. But it was something. Something real. The kids started to take interest, and that felt like a small victory. We weren’t just stuck in the endless loop of daily chores anymore. There was a reason to wake up, something to work toward.
We started making the farm our home, but it wasn’t easy. I won’t sugarcoat it. The first few months were harder than anything we’d ever done before. Every day was a new challenge—finding the money to fix the tractor, gathering enough firewood to get through the winter, dealing with broken fences that the kids somehow always found a way to escape through.
But the biggest challenge? Our doubts. I think every single person who came to visit us at some point asked the same question: “What in the world made you think you could do this?” Even our friends, who had always been supportive, began to question whether this dream of ours was really worth it. The kids were unhappy. I could see it on their faces when they asked if they could go to the mall or see their friends.
Then there was the nagging question that kept me up at night: Was I making a mistake? We had left behind everything we knew—the safety of our city life, the comfort of having access to anything at any time. Now, we had to make do with what we had. And at times, it didn’t seem like it was enough.
But then something shifted.
One afternoon, as I sat on the porch, watching the kids try to corral the chickens into a makeshift pen, I noticed something that I hadn’t seen before. They were laughing. Not the forced, “I’m-trying-to-pretend-I’m-having-fun” laughter, but the kind that happens when you’ve completely lost yourself in the moment. The kind of laughter you can’t fake.
And I realized something. They were growing—growing in ways I hadn’t even noticed. The twins, who had spent so much of their early years in front of screens, were now getting their hands dirty, learning how to plant seeds and care for animals. The older kids, who once rolled their eyes at anything that didn’t involve their friends, were slowly starting to take pride in what they had created. The farm, as messy and imperfect as it was, was giving them something real. Something that could never be found on a screen or in a shopping mall.
But life has a funny way of testing you when you think you’ve made it through the worst. Just as we were getting a handle on things, a storm came through. It wasn’t just a little rain, either—it was one of those storms that feels like it’s trying to tear everything down. The wind howled, the rain came down in sheets, and our little trailer felt like it was going to fly off its foundation. We ran to the barn, trying to get the animals inside, but it was too late. The storm flooded our garden, ripped off part of the roof, and knocked over our food supplies.
It felt like the universe was laughing at us, mocking our attempt to build something that could survive in a world that often felt so unpredictable. I stood in the muddy yard, soaked to the bone, staring at the damage, and for a moment, I felt like giving up. I didn’t know how we could fix this. How could we keep going when the earth beneath us seemed so ready to swallow us whole?
But then, as we stood there, my partner reached out and took my hand. “We’ll rebuild,” he said simply. And I realized that he didn’t just mean the farm. He meant us. He meant the family, the life we were creating, the dream we’d chosen to chase.
So, we did. Slowly, painfully, and with a lot of help from people who hadn’t given up on us. We rebuilt the garden, we patched up the roof, and we fixed the fences. It took time. It took money we didn’t have. But with every small repair, every improvement we made, something else happened too: we began to believe in ourselves again.
And then came the twist—something I never expected.
As the kids grew, they started to notice the bigger picture. They noticed how connected we were to the land, how everything we did had an impact on the world around us. They started learning about sustainability, about how what we ate, how we lived, and how we treated each other could make a real difference in the world. We started to grow our own food more seriously, learning about crops that could withstand the harsh winters and dry summers. We planted fruit trees and built a better chicken coop. We even started selling our eggs and produce at the local market.
But the karmic twist came when we least expected it. One afternoon, a woman showed up at our farm with a car full of organic gardening supplies—tools, seeds, compost, you name it. She introduced herself as a local farmer, someone who had heard about our efforts and wanted to help. Her family had been in farming for generations, and they had resources they weren’t using.
“Your story,” she said, “reminds me of my own. When my grandparents first started farming, they had nothing. And look at them now. They built an empire of sustainability, and I think you have the same potential.”
I was floored. Here was someone, a stranger, who was offering us exactly what we needed—guidance, resources, and most importantly, belief that we could succeed. She didn’t ask for anything in return, just that we pay it forward someday when we were able.
In that moment, I realized that everything we had been through—the hardships, the doubts, the fear—wasn’t just about survival. It was about building something that was greater than ourselves. The farm was no longer just a place to live; it was a symbol of our resilience. And as we grew, as we found new ways to make the farm work, we also found ways to give back—to the community and to ourselves.
We had found a way to live that wasn’t just about surviving. It was about thriving. It was about building something real, something that would last long after we were gone. And it all started with one choice—the choice to leave everything behind and start over.
So, if you ever find yourself standing at the edge of a decision, afraid to take that leap, remember this: sometimes, the biggest risks bring the greatest rewards. We don’t always know how things will turn out, but the act of trying, of taking that first step, can lead to something incredible. You never know who or what might come into your life just when you need it most.
If you’ve ever taken a leap of faith and had it pay off in unexpected ways, share your story. You never know who might need to hear it. And remember, no matter how tough it gets, you have the strength to keep going. Don’t give up.
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