Am I wrong for pulling my daughter out of school over a drawing?

Rachel Kim

I (35F) have four days to decide if I’m sending her back. She’s seven.

Maddie’s teacher, Mrs. Holloway, called me in for what I thought was a normal conference. Maddie’s grades are fine. She’s quiet, but fine. I sat down across from a stack of construction paper and Mrs. Holloway slid one across the table without a word.

It was a family picture. Stick figures, the usual – me, Maddie, her little brother Dax. But off to the side, behind what was clearly our house, there was a fourth figure. Bigger. Standing at the window. Mrs. Holloway pointed at it and said, “I asked Maddie who that was.”

“She told me his name,” Mrs. Holloway said. “And then she told me he comes at night. When you’re asleep.”

My husband Ryan works nights at the distribution center. Has for two years. Nobody else has a key.

I asked Maddie’s teacher what name she gave. She looked at me for a second too long before she answered.

“She said his name was Uncle Cole.”

I don’t have a brother named Cole. Ryan doesn’t have a brother named Cole. There is no Cole in this family, in this town, in either of our phones.

Mrs. Holloway pulled out one more drawing, folded smaller than the rest, like Maddie hadn’t meant for anyone to find it.

“There’s one more thing,” she said. “She drew this last week and asked me not to show you. I think you need to see it anyway.”

She unfolded it and turned it around.

If you’re looking for more wild family stories, you might love hearing about my grandmother who left everything to a church roof fund or when my daughter drew a man with a beard I don’t have and called him her “other daddy”. And for a truly unbelievable tale, check out what happened when my husband flatlined in the street and the paramedic called him “Dad”.